Thursday, January 31, 2008

New Year's in Orlando!


I know it has been a while since I posted a new blog. Not too mu
ch going on lately other than the economy that is effecting us with not being able to sell our Townhome and possible layoffs at my job by October.

We did have some fun on New Year's Eve and New Year's Day in Orlando and are currently getting ready to go on a 5 day trip to Cancun, Mexico for fun! I was not feeling that well on New Year's Eve and was not able to party as much as I would have due to stomach problems (not pregnant yet for those of you who may have been thinking that). Since I was not feeling well we did not take too many pictures on New Year's Eve at Pleasure Island but we took more at Animal Kingdom the next day. Click here to view our pictures from Disney! Hope you enjoy the pictures that we have. It was a nice way to start the New Year in the Magic Kingdom!!! The fireworks were awesome!

Here's a picture of us at Animal Kingdom on Jan 1st, 2008!


Here, Here!!!

Sunday, January 13, 2008

More Wedding Memories on Video...


As promised, we finally have some more video footage uploaded. If you are using dial-up internet connection, you most probably won't be able to view the videos. It is better to have a DSL internet connection to view streaming video on the internet (without waiting for several hours, like in case of dial-up!). If you are interested in checking out the video clips, Uday suggests that after clicking on the links, wait for it to play and then press "pause". After waiting for about one minute then press "play" again. Uday says this will allow some time for the video to get buffered (download from Google to your computer). For those of you who do not understand computer language it basically means wait at least a minute or two after pressing "pause", and then press "play" in order to watch the video more smoothly (consistently without pauses).

I have placed links to clips of the videos on this blog post and also under "Our Video's" section as well.

Enjoy and let us know what you think when you get a chance. You can always write your comments below the blog under the comments section!

The first clip is our Introduction (click on the picture below to view the video).


The second clip is Moments in Love (click on the picture below to view the video).


The following two video clips are the Recaps of our Wedding. They are pretty much the same video footage but to two different songs. The first of the Recap Video is to the song "By Your side", by Sade, the next is the song "Somewhere Over the Rainbow..." by Israel Kamakawiwo'ole. If you get a chance comment below and let us know which one you like better! We obviously had a difficult time deciding!

Below is the first Recap choice to "By Your Side" (click the picture below to view video).


Below is the second Recap choice to "Somewhere Over the Rainbow..." (click on the picture below to view the video).


We hope to put another clip or two of the guests at our wedding and links of them under "Our Video" section (in the future). Hope you enjoyed watching our wedding videos!

Cheers!

Sunday, January 6, 2008

What is Contraversial to One Person May Not be to Another...


Recently, Uday, mom, and I went to see a movie called The Golden Compass. We were excited to see the movie because Uday loves seeing the special effects of a movie in the theater. Mom was excited to see this movie because there is a part with witches and things similar to that nature... I was excited about it because I had heard it was a controversial movie! I was not sure why it was controversial, so I was looking forward to find out.

As I was watching I figured out that the "golden compass" was symbolic of intuition and/or inner truth. The next thing I thought was interesting is that the movie called the animals that were around everyone "demons" and that they were considered the soul of that person. The pre-adolescent kids' demons could change their form into different animals as different situations arose. As a therapist this is symbolic to me because, "diagnosing personality" is mainly done with adults since younger teens/children have not truly formed all of their personality. Children are still finding their true identity, as is illustrated in the movie by their changing "demons" or souls and adults have fixed "demons" (their personalities are already formed).

As I was watching the movie I was still having trouble figuring out why it is controversial? One mystery in the movie is for the main character (a girl called Lyra) to find out about something called "dust". I'm not sure myself what the "dust" symbolizes. In the movie they say that it is discovered in a parallel universes. It appears as though this "dust" is causing people to rebel against authority and that the "dust" is connected between the person and their demon (or soul).

In the movie, Lyra goes on many adventures. She keeps her promise and puts her life at risk to find her friend that was kidnapped along with many other children as the antagonist in the movie are trying to separate kids from their "demons" (or souls). She learns to master her fears, and makes friend with beings that she most probably would not have if she did not set out on this journey to save the kidnapped kids. At one point in the movie she is kidnapped herself and they try to separate her from her soul. The antagonists in the movie believe that separating kids from their soul is a good thing because it will lead them to have indecision. Indecision will cause the kids to do what they are told. Thus, the antagonist in the movie, also known as "The Authority", think that it is good for the kids to lose their free will and do what the authority tells them to do for their own good.

This movie has other interesting details and characters as well and Uday was satisfied with the special effects. It was not until I was walking out of the movie theater that I started to figure more of the movie out and how it could be seen as controversial.

The authority in the movie is symbolic of certain religions (that consider God as an authority). The girl is trying to eliminate this authority, and the authority thinks it is better if the children just do what they are told. I had to explain this to my mom and Uday because it is very subtle in the movie and difficult to find and figure out at first glance. Uday and I actually got in a debate afterwards because he said that I did not know anything about religion. Uday was brought up as a Protestant Christian in India (but didn't really follow the religion). He became "Born Again Christian" when he moved to Louisiana. Uday studied the bible a bit and thinks that he knows more about the things in the Bible than me. He did not see the movie the way that I saw it, in fact he did not seem to get it at all (in my opinion).

So to prove him wrong (what I do best) I looked it up on the Internet and discovered that I was pretty much on target. The people who consider themselves Christian, were outraged by the movie as they saw it as teaching children to kill God and not respect authority (I did not read this but I imagine they also mean parents as well). I also saw the movie in a way that religious people might get upset about how the golden compass was teaching the girl to listen to herself (intuition) instead of asking God (by praying).

It so happens that the movie is a book written by Phillip Pullman who people say is an Atheist. He has written a three part series of the novel (first of which is The Golden Compass) which is now being produced as a three part movie. Here is an interesting article that discusses these thoughts about him being an Atheist. Some comments said that this movie was to show the other side of "The Chronicles of Narnia". I have not seen that movie yet, but Uday thinks it is a really good movie. The comments also stated that the movie was subtle on purpose in the hopes that parents would find it innocent and then buy the book for their children. The book is said to be more specific and more detailed. Many religious societies have encouraged others to ban the movie and the book.

This movie got me thinking, I was looking for controversy and I had to look very deep and hard to find it. My mom and Uday did not see it and I believe most kids would not see it this way either. It makes me wonder if the religious people are more insecure about their beliefs that they become defensive easily. Even if the movie was teaching everything that the religious people might be afraid that it is teaching, what is the harm in listening to one's inner truth, questioning authority, and seeking the scientific proof? Ironically, I don't consider myself an Atheist, but I do participate in Atheist type behaviors, which I like to call educated behaviors.

If you get a chance to see this movie, please write your comments below...What is controversial to one person is not to another. I'd be interested in learning your take on the movie!

Saturday, January 5, 2008

Party Like a Rock Star

Happy New Year!! I know that I have not written much since the Holidays, like most people, we have been very busy. In fact, unlike most people, on December 15th we had two parties to attend at the same time that were about 45 minutes away from each other. One Party was the Vanilla Ice Holiday Party that was being put on by the radio station I listen to down here called Wild 95.5. The other party was Uday's work Christmas Party at a nice country club. Since it was too difficult of a decision to make, we decided to attempt to go to both the parties! Our plan was to go to the Vanilla Ice Party first and then to Uday's work party and then back to the Vanilla Ice Party. It so happened that we were not able to make it back to the Vanilla Ice Party because we were having too much fun at Uday's work party (to my surprise, we were literally "getting jiggy with it" on the dance floor).

Although I did not get to meet Vanilla Ice AKA Rob Van Winkle (as he was there later in the evening), I did get to talk with Jason from the "Morning Show" on 95.5 and he is awesome!! Jason reminds me of Adam Sandler as he is really funny, he writes and sings songs that are hilarious such as "Hell no to H2O", he loves the 80's, Gary Coleman, Big Foot, Mountain Dew, Patrick Swayze and Hulk Hogan etc.

Here's me and Jason AKA JBird!













Here's another picture of me next to a Monster Truck as Vanilla Ice and
his posse are into them (and motor bikes)!












Although I wanted to go back to the party to meet Ron Jeremy, Vanilla Ic
e and the possibility of a few other celebrities, Uday's work Christmas Party had awesome food, his nice co-workers and and the best DJ I have ever heard. We had a blast dancing!!

Here are a few pictures of us before we got sweaty dancing the rest of the night away!!

















Two totally different atmospheres and two different clothing styles for me, I trully felt like a Rock Star!!


Word to ya moth'r'.....